牵肠挂肚
qiān cháng guà dù
to worry about someone constantly
Character by character
牵qiān
pull
pull
肠cháng
intestines
intestines
挂guà
hang
hang
肚dù
belly
belly
Example
孩子第一次出远门,妈妈牵肠挂肚,一夜没睡好。
The first time her child went far from home, the mother fretted so much that she hardly slept all night.
Tone: neutral.
Usage and origin
Mostly of family worrying about someone who is away; warm and colloquial. Close to 放心不下 and 惦记, but stronger.
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