斤斤计较

jīn jīn jì jiào

to fuss over every ounce

Character by character

斤jīn
scrutinise

计jì
count

较jiào
compare

朋友之间不要斤斤计较。

Friends shouldn't keep score over every little thing.

Tone: negative (criticism).

Takes 跟…斤斤计较 or 在…上斤斤计较; a common reproach among friends, family and colleagues.

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