悲痛欲绝

bēi tòng yù jué

overwhelmed with grief

Character by character

悲bēi
sorrow

痛tòng
pain

欲yù
about to

绝jué
break

得知父亲去世的消息，他悲痛欲绝。

When he learned his father had died, he was devastated.

Tone: neutral.

For bereavement and tragedy, not everyday disappointment.

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